This is an absolute joke website. No sooner did I complete my profile, I started loads and loads of messages but they won't allow me to read them until I paid for the membership. When I paid and I wrote myself hundreds of emails to members and they won't even bother to reply a single message. I would say it is absolutely a scam and money making business with no real members. I believe they have appointed staff members who send messages pretended to be interested in you and once you pay the membership fee, now the ball is in their court and you are nothing more than a poor looser. I would advise everyone to stay away from this website.