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Recommend? 43 Yes (57% No)

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User Reviews of EHarmony

This site STINKS! They rope you in with promises of ONE MONTH and then keep charging you without your permission, and their customer service STINKS! If something has to be "fine print" that involves MY money it should be in BIG print!

New York, US
User Rating : 1 out 7 Stars
Eharmony makes a big deal about matching but almost 90% of my matches had not answered any questions or less than 5. So how could they be a match for me??? In addition, they insist on expanding the distance I wanted matches. This is a huge rip off.

Manchester, New Hampshire, US
User Rating : 2 out 7 Stars
I never actually joined. I took their test and because I didn't want to date men older than me, they told me they didn't have any matches for me.

33029, Florida, US
User Rating : 4 out 7 Stars
there is NOTHING different then any other site!! on other sites you have the advantage of selecting you own contact. E harmony does NOT match you on anything other than. Someone just picks profiles and sends them. 95% of the "matches" I received had no pictures, no questions were answered, profiles were extremely limited - so where is the "science" behind the match? Then you can't even reach anyone at E harmony to complain. ! Save your money, use another site and select your own matches, this one sucks

Beaverton, Oregon, US
User Rating : 1 out 7 Stars
This site was unfortunately an expensive mistake. I adjusted my settings that I want to meet someone 60 miles w/in my radius and it was important that they be w/in that range - well received hardly any matches. I wrote and they suggested I remove the "very important" and put somewhat important - now I get matches from all over the country - hardly any in Atlanta. But their Customer Service claims that my mate could be in another state, yadda yadda yadda. I am extremely disappointed in this site especially since it's the MOST EXPENSIVE. Been on for since Feb and out of the 3 I found interesting - 2 were scams. Don't Bother!!!

Georgia, US
User Rating : 1 out 7 Stars

I met my boyfriend on eHarmony and we are talking about a wedding date! We have been dating for over a year now and I really thank eHarmony for bringing us together. It has been a real blessing!

Jacksonville, Florida, US
User Rating : 5 out 7 Stars
eHarmony lies about the cost and what you can do

Virginia, US
User Rating : 1 out 7 Stars
waste of time.

overland park, Kansas, US
User Rating : 1 out 7 Stars
Don't do it. The "break the ice" questions which people tend to use are very fake and unnatural way to have dialog with someone. People use it because it's the easy way out. Otherwise the profiles all sound very similar, because people just answer a bunch of questions to the best of their ability and make it sound all pretty and nice. Problem 2. You must turn off "auto-renew" before membership runs out. If you don't you will be billed again. I have done this 4 months into the 6 month membership and still got charged again. Initially they didn't want to give money back but I insisted so they complied. They prey on people to make a mistake or an oversight and take their money. Stick with regular dating sites. The members are not much better here than anywhere else and on other sites it's easier to weed out the bad ones because they have to construct their profile from scratch rather than answer a bunch of questions which limits their ability to make a unique profile that gives away their personality or lack there of. Bad experience.

Brisbane, Queensland, AU
User Rating : 2 out 7 Stars

I paid too much money and its been a waste of time!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Columbia, South Carolina, US
User Rating : 1 out 7 Stars

This site does not allow immediate contact between members and although it claims to match you with compatible potential mates, it only has to do with who is willing to play the game until the last stage. I met a couple of people on this site and later I met them in another dating site.

Houston, Texas, US
User Rating : 2 out 7 Stars

There is a ton of inactive profiles, and apparently there is barely anyone around the Lansing area. The last match I talked on there was trying to scam me. I'm not very impressed

Michigan, US
User Rating : 3 out 7 Stars

I used this site for a year only met one person and that didn't work. This site is expensive based on other site. You are not able to browse for members. They send you daily matchs. I found more often that not those matchs have been on the site for weeks or months. Which is disappointing. I have notice that some folks on this site are on others as well. Or have been on others. Certainly not worth the money. In face to date I haven't found one.

Connecticut, US
User Rating : 2 out 7 Stars

Had to get on here and give my 2 cents! Loved E Harmony! I have been a member of more dating sites than I would like to admit and E Harmony is by far my best experience. Simple things like the billing and customer service and over of course to the results, the matches and the website is far superior than all others. I think they really improved their site and features in the last 6 moths which may be why you see so many commercials now. Anyhow, I hope you find some good dates!

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, US
User Rating : 5 out 7 Stars

I paid special offer of $155 for 12 months in Perth, western Australia and have found after about the first 25 matches they seem to have run out of guys to send me. I have sent a lot of these a smile or hi there in an email but only 2 have replied saying they have just started seeing someone else sorry. Whether the other guys haven't paid and can't contact me back, and are just to stingy or they are fake profiles or just very fussy I don't know. Some of them don't even have pics and I feel it's very frustrating that surely out of that many guys some would contact me back. On plenty of fish I was fighting them back with a stick lol. Anyway I contacted them and said I wanted to cancel and they said no go and sorry I wasn't happy but according to them it's all above board. They shouldn't let people join if they're not going to pay. At least with RSVP if one of you pays you can make contact, much fairer. And also you can't search profiles, you just have to wait for them to send you matches which I don't think they have, not here anyway.

perth, Western Australia, AU
User Rating : 2 out 7 Stars

Maybe 1/5 profiles is actually active you are being matched with someone's god knows when created account instead of being matched with real people.

Alabama, US
User Rating : 3 out 7 Stars
If you want a site that completely ignores your guidelines, pressures you to accept smokers, does not even have inventory for a big city like Chicago, then eharm is for you. They would match you with a three legged toad...because that is all they have.

chicago, Illinois, US
User Rating : 2 out 7 Stars

Good place to meet a male that is looking for marriage

makati, Manila, PH
User Rating : 5 out 7 Stars
Ive been a member of eharmony 2 different times. I was a member a few years back and got into a relationship but it didnt work out. I was skeptical about the matching system and whether I wanted to try it again. I cautiously signed up again and forunately I found someone that I was very compatible with. that of course was a great relief and now I am in a happy committed relationship. I had some trouble signing up again since I thought they already had all of my information but it was way more complicated than it needed to be in my opinion. Nonetheless I got support in signing back up and very happy with the outcome.

Dayton, Ohio, US
User Rating : 4 out 7 Stars
After signing up for eHarmony I began to get messages from people who matched up with my personality. a good number of them seemed interesting and intriguing so I was optimistic with their algorithm and ability to match me up with someone. So far the people I have met for dates have been pretty cool overall but no spark. Im still optimistic though.

Mesa, Arizona, US
User Rating : 5 out 7 Stars
Just wanted to let everyone know that not only do I think eHarmony is a great dating site but I met my husband on this site! We were married on June 1, 2012! Thank you eHarmony!!!

Garden Grove, California, US
User Rating : 5 out 7 Stars